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The
Feminist Principle of Safety
When
we talk about safety in terms of how our members treat one other, or how
our meetings and decision-making processes are structured, we mean those
internal practices and processes that are fair and inclusive. These enable
us to express our ideas and opinions, and to challenge each other in ways
that are respectful and
The feminist principle
of safety means that we individually and collectively encourage the full
participation of women within our organizations by fostering environments
that are healthy, empowering, educational and confidential. All women
should expect to feel safe, accepted and included when they walk through
our doors. The feminist practice
of safety is about developing respectful, fair and inclusive processes
through which our members and others can effectively work together to
fulfill the mandate of our organizations. This means we accept our own
and others mistakes, and provide opportunities to learn from these
mistakes while leaving the blame behind. For example, a woman new to feminism
might assume during conversation that all women within our group are heterosexual.
Rather than halting the conversation, we can use this opportunity to educate
her about womens systemic discrimination by gently challenging her
assumption. We create an environment of safety when we treat each other
with acceptance and respect, and celebrate the diversity of background
and experience among us. Through practices such as consensus-building,
shared leadership and decision-making, mentoring, conflict resolution,
and celebration, we build healthy, participatory equality-seeking organizations. As feminists, we need
to be aware and vigilant of building organizations without boundaries,
places that seem safer and more inviting on the surface than they could
be in reality. For example, women may feel a false sense of security because
of the caring and validating environment we have created. We may disclose
information about our private lives and later regret sharing our stories,
or wish we had done so in a more appropriate setting. Unless we are careful,
we could find ourselves in the position of taking liberty with each others
personal stories without taking care of each other. Women who choose to
identify personal experiences during discussions must acknowledge that
doing so is not without some personal risk. We need to establish boundaries
with each other and find ways of discussing personal circumstances that
are healthy for individual women and our organizations. As individual women, we should consider how we are accountable for our individual and collective safety within our organizations. We should assume that in any feminist organization women who are survivors are present. We should also assume that women have healthy strategies for dealing with personal issues. These strategies may include choosing to speak at particular times, taking a time out, calling a friend following the discussion, or seeking professional assistance. As members of feminist equality-seeking organizations, we should encourage each other to practice self-care by drawing on these strategies if we experience discomfort when discussing or relating to a personal experience. As feminists, we have an individual and collective responsibility to act in ways that promote safety and inclusion at all times. Unless we are vigilant, struggles such as lack of adequate staff and resources, unclear roles and responsibilities, and disrespectful or intolerant attitudes and behaviours may contribute to an exclusionary atmosphere for women despite the best of intentions. Our challenge is to build healthy feminist organizations where all women feel comfortable to voice their ideas and opinions, share stories and experiences, mentor and learn from each other, and seek information and assistance. The nature of our work presents many opportunities to discuss issues and strategies with members, and consult with other women on a regular basis. When we make the most of these opportunities, and demonstrate our commitment to feminist principles and practices, we advance our agenda for womens equality and inclusion.
source: PACSW pdf document (requires Adobe Acrobat Reader)
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