Guestbook Entries Follow this link to Sign the Guestbook     -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Melissa Manninen-Saffari City West Vancouver Sent: 7.09 pm - sun 23 mar 2003 Dear Mr. and Mrs. McConnell and Jodie, I was so deeply saddened to learn of your loss. I have very fond memories of Kim at Our Lady of Fatima School in Naughton. She truly was a role model for all of us whose lives she touched. My sincerest sympathies. Melissa -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Kevin Taylor City Toronto Sent: 11.55 am - fri 21 mar 2003 Dear Jean, Bob and Jodie, I am sorry I did not make it to Kim’s memorial. I just wanted to express my deepest sympathies to all of you. I have so many fond memories of Kim and of our visits to Lively so many years ago. My thoughts and my prayers are with you. love, Kevin -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Teresa Dubreuil City Sainte-Foy,Qué.Can. G1W 2V2 Sent: 4.47 pm - mon 17 mar 2003 Goodbye Kim: We will miss you. We love you and your family. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Jodi A. Vasak City Sudbury Sent: 4.46 pm - sat 22 feb 2003 I never had the pleasure of meeting Kimberly face to face, but she was well liked and loved by those who knew her. My aunt Helen(Dolly) spoke fondly and highly of Kim. We could all learn something from her life and her living it to the fullest. May she rest in eternal peace and may you find comfort in your warm memories of her. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Estelle Joliat City Sudbury Sent: 9.16 am - fri 21 feb 2003 Dear Jean, Bob & Jodie, What a beautiful tribute to a young lady who obviously touched so many hearts. In reading through the emotional words of some of her friends and family members, especially Jodie's eulogy, one cannot help but feel the warmth and friendship that Kim generously provided to so many. She was clearly a special person who had a sincere interest in people. You must be very proud of Kim's accomplishments and I can only hope that all of these wonderful compliments to Kim and all of the joyous memories you have help you through this difficult time. My thoughts are with you, Estelle -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Susan Turcotte City Sudbury Sent: 8.08 am - fri 21 feb 2003 Jean & Family..... I never personally had the honour of meeting Kimberly, but I got to know her in a small way through Jeans' motherly boasting and pride. I was very impressed with her drive and integrity! I also noticed she was a fellow Sagittarian?? I also want to tell Jodie how impressed I was with her eulogy. At such an emotional time she was very eloquent and composed. I especially appreciated her closing remarks, as I agree wholeheartedly that those in positions of power and authority, who are the most positively positioned to effect positive change must have the courage and integrity to step forward and make changes that need to be made. I often question if many in these people had even half the courage & integrity someone like Kimberly possessed how incredible our world might be?? We continue to think of all of you and anticipate Jeans return to the rink for some minor sort of solace in this incredibly difficult time. Take care of each other. TTYS (Talk To You Shortly!) Susan Turcotte xox -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Kari-Anne Jalbert (Dever) City Amherstview, Ontario Sent: 9.45 pm - thu 20 feb 2003 Dear Bob, Jean and Jodie, Hello to everyone. My family and myself were deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your wonderful daughter and sister. My mom forwarded Kim's memorial site to me and I couldn't pass up the opportunity to send you a message with my regrets, best wishes, and a few of the fond memories that I have about Kim. When my parents called me with the news, I took some time to reflect on my fond memories of Kim. I can remember her strength and determination, as she would challenge Jodie and I to summersault competitions, or a race on our bikes. I remember how she inspired me as she sped past us in her wheel chair. I remember also how she would always be the voice of reason as Jodie and I would have each others hair in our tightly closed fists, and/or be arguing about something (probably Terry Briggs!). And I will always remember her smiling face and kind Hello, as I walked through the halls of Cambrian College, years after you moved away from Lively. These are only some of the things that I remember. I feel very fortunate to have had the opportunity to call Kim "a friend" or "my best friend's big sister". Knowing Kim at such a young age helped me to be comfortable with, respect, and see the potential in all people no matter what their abilities and/or disabilities were. This in turn has helped to lead me down the career path that I have chosen. I first started out as a Child and Youth worker, a field that I remained in for 15 years. This area of work offered me the opportunity to be employed in a variety of different settings with very special children of all ages. More resently I have been able to persue my dream of becoming a teacher, and I now teach a wonderful group of children with special needs. (I apologize for being unable to attend Kim's funeral but I am presently in my first year of teaching and have been kept very busy with this.) I think that Kim's site is wonderful, and not only reflects the beauty of her, but also demonstrates the incredible family from which she came from. I am sure that she is looking down on it with a smile, as she speeds across the heavens on her bike. Thank you for sharing this site with me. Please say hello to Jodie and perhaps you could forward her my e-mail address, I would love to get caught up with her. It has been a long time. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of grief. Sincerely with love, Kari (Anne) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Fran and Brian Cottam City Sudbury Sent: 8.00 pm - wed 19 feb 2003 Dear Jean, Bob and Jodie: Having worked with you Jean for many, many years, I saw a young girl emerge into a beautiful woman. I admired her courage and determination and her infectious laugh. She was an inspiration to all who knew her. I know how much you loved her and wish there were words which could take away your pain. May there be comfort in knowing we share your sorrow. Jean, remember as you always reminded me of my mom, she is watching you and is so very proud. Sincerely, Fran and Brian -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Carly Fournier City Sudbury Sent: 7.52 pm - wed 19 feb 2003 My mom and Kim worked closely together at Teletech. They became the closest of friends. My mom spoke of Kim so much that I felt I knew her. When I started working there I finally had the pleasure of meeting Kim. I could tell that she had a heart of gold just by the way she talked. She was so genuine. From that day on Kim would go out of her way to find me and offer her assistance in any way possible. Her smile was forever radiant, and her eyes sparkled brightly. She truly was a gem of a lady. Thank you Kim for the memories. All my love Carly -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Fran Caldarelli City Sudbury Sent: 2.33 pm - wed 19 feb 2003 I did not know Kim well, but my mother-in-law lived at Casa Bella during some of the years Kim was there. Kim went out of her way to make the whole building a nicer place to live. She always had a smile, and a kind word for all the residents and they really loved her. May she rest in peace. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Whitney Muzyka City Sudbury Sent: 9.12 am - tue 18 feb 2003 I had the pleasure of getting to know Kim while she was a student here and during her employment at Cambrian. She always had a warm smile and a kind word. She will be missed but fondly remembered by all who knew her. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Stephanie Holmes City Sudbury Sent: 8.38 am - tue 18 feb 2003 Every now and then a person comes along who truly makes a difference. Kim was one of those people. That difference will always be with us and we are better fot it. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Ann Frampton City Sudbury Sent: 7.54 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 I would like to extend my sincere sympathy to Kim's family. I worked with Kim for a short time in The Glenn Crombie Centre and enjoyed her very much. She was a dedicated worker who took pride in her work. I saw her several times after leaving Cambrian and she always greeted me with her wonderful smile. Take care. Ann -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Gerry Bertrand City Sudbury Sent: 4.31 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 Please accept my sympathies. That picture of Kim is exactly how I remember her and how I will always remember her - what a smile. Thanks Kim. Gerry -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Kathy Wagner City Sudbury, Ontario Sent: 4.19 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 A woman with grit and courage. A person sure of herself and of her important role in the community. A joy to know. And, for me, a gracious addition to my English classroom when Kim was a student at Cambrian. We are all enriched by having Kim touch our lives; she gave so much and asked so little! kathy -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Sue Chevrier City Chelmford, On P0M 1L0 Sent: 3.43 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 Thanks KIM!... For all the wonderful memories of working with you. You really know how to put a smile on people's faces even on a dark day! Good bye, and I'm already missing you! You were the greatest!!!! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Mike Mulvihill Homepage: http://mjmulvihill@cambrianc.on.ca Sent: 2.12 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 Kim seemed to be smiling all the time. I found her smile infectious. It was wonderful to work with her and to have had the chance to get to know her a little. She has made a difference in our community. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Rick Cooper City Sudbury Sent: 1.45 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 Kim was a very bright, positive and interesting person. I will always think of her with fondness and admiration. We need more like her. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Donald J. Pitre Sent: 1.35 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 Please accept my heartfelt sympathies. I did not know Kim personally but during my teaching career at Cambrian College our paths did cross many times. She always had a smile and was such a good example of the contributions that handicapped people can make to society. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Darryl Lake & Staff @NORCAT Homepage: http://norcat.org City Sudbury Sent: 12.55 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 We all knew Kim during her time at Cambrian and marvelled at her strength and determination. She was truly a role model. She will be missed. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Ruth & Bonnie Sent: 12.29 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 Dear Jean Bob & Jodie Kim was an amazing young lady who accomplished more than most of us will in a lifetime. With her love and endearing spirit she changed the world for so many people. I'm sure the loss, sadness and memories will linger with family and friends whose lives were made joyous with her love of life. She truly was a special and amazing young woman who will be sadly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Bonnie & Ruth -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Ray Rodda City Sudbury Sent: 12.20 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 I was very saddened to read the news of Kim's passing. I was one of her teachers years ago here at Cambrian. She was a very motivated student, and she did teach me a lot more than she ever realized. I will miss her, but I will always remember her.....Ray -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Brian Turner City Sudbury Sent: 12.08 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 I remember Kim from her time at Cambrian College and I remember her positive attitude and involvment in college life. She is not forgotten. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Nancy Vaillancourt City Garson Sent: 12.04 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 I'll always remember Kim with a big smile, scooting around the hallways at Cambrian College. She was a joy to know. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Rocky Bivens City Sudbury Sent: 12.01 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 I knew Kim as a student at Cambrian College in Sudbury and will remember her for her tenacity, drive and great spirit. She will be remembered and missed by all who knew her. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Diane Yurich City Sudbury Sent: 12.01 pm - mon 17 feb 2003 I was terribly saddened also to hear of Kim's passing. I got to know Kim briefly when she worked with us in the Registrar's Office many years ago. She was a very fine person who never displayed any self-pity or anger as a result of her affliction. I will never forget her. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Brian P. Vendramin Homepage: http://www.cambrianfoundation.com City Sudbury Sent: 11.57 am - mon 17 feb 2003 I worked with Kim during the Unleash the Potential Capital Campaign in support of the Special Needs Regional Resource Centre now known as The Glenn Crombie Centre. I have always been impressed with Kim's enthusiasm, creativity, warmth and positive attitude. Please accept my kindest thoughts and prayers for your loss. Sincerely, Brian P. Vendramin Executive Director Cambrian Foundation -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Susan Alcorn MacKay City Sudbury Sent: 11.48 am - mon 17 feb 2003 I remember Kim as a laughing friend and co-worker who taught me about the human spirit. I will miss her and remember her with every student who prevails. susan -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: pat lalande City sudbury Sent: 11.41 am - mon 17 feb 2003 Dear Mr & Mrs.McConnell & Jodie I just wanted to send my deepest sympathies to your family. I met Kim while working at teletech she was always a very ambitious girl and always had a smile on her face. She was always working for something better and seemed to face life with great enthusiasm. Even though I did not know her that well in the time that I did know her at work she was a lovely person. I am truly grateful for knowing her in my life God Bless Your Family Pat Lalande -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Helen Fallding City Winnipeg Sent: 10.22 pm - sun 16 feb 2003 The few times I met Kim, she was remarkably open and welcoming -- as the rest of you McConnells are to those of us who turn up on your doorstep. I have kept up with Kim's adventures over the years through Jodie, who always had her sister in mind when she was planning holidays and where to live that would be accessible for Kim. As a family, you gave Kim everything she needed to venture out into the world and take on any challenges that came her way. As this Web site makes clear, she gave back many times over. I am sorry she is not still here to keep on giving and loving and laughing. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Cristina Logtenberg City Moorpark, California Sent: 5.32 pm - sun 16 feb 2003 Dear Mr. and Mrs. McConnell and Jodie, My deepest sympathies to you all. I known Kim for approximately 16 years. I remember the fun times we had together and being with her during some of her difficult times. She was such a giving and thoughtful person. She was there when you needed her in any way. I always admired Kim's optimism for life, even if things weren't going so well. She was always working towards or for something. She didn't sit passively and let life go by. She lived it!! For those of us who knew Kim, her spirit will live on in our hearts. She will be greatly missed. May you find peace in your hearts and may the sadness you feel now be replaced with the wonderful memories of her life. Love, Cristina -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Mark Chartrand City Sudbury ON Sent: 10.55 pm - sat 15 feb 2003 It gives me great pleasure to have known Kim for such a short time. I met Kim at Toronto School of Business in the Accounting and Payroll Administration program. I was saddened and shocked to hear of her passing so quickly as I had just spoken to her on the telephone Monday afternoon. We had some very in-depth conversations about goals and ambitions in life as well as sharing the frustrations of searching for employment after completing our school program. Talking to Kim was always a source of encouragement. Her ability to laugh and make light of things was a great stress relief. I will greatly miss Kim's friendship and the source of inspiration and encouragement she was. My life was deeply enriched knowing Kim and she will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with her friends and family and the memories will be remembered in our hearts. With love, Mark. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Maria Goldsack City Sudbury Sent: 9.06 pm - sat 15 feb 2003 I grieve for your family and the for Kim. I wish you didn't have to experience this pain, but I know that there was a great deal of love and joy in the years you spent with Kim and that those memories are with you now and forever. Love Maria & Doug -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Marika Sent: 8.59 pm - sat 15 feb 2003 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Maggie Gaudette (Handi-Transit) City Sudbury Sent: 11.59 am - sat 15 feb 2003 My thoughts and prays are with you Kim. Your sudden departure is overwelming.I will miss seeing you and hearing you. It was always a pleasure to have you ride with me and fill me in on your days accomplishements. You always worked hard on having a good life and seeing your goals met, never did you give up, you are an insparation to us all. Many years you rode with me and I am gratefull for having known you in my life. I will always remember. God Bless Maggie -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Helen & Spike City Sudbury Sent: 11.10 am - sat 15 feb 2003 Dear Bob,Jean & Jodie We have all been "Truly Blessed" to have known Kim. She has left everyone with a keener sense of compassion for all people, and therefore we should not weep but celebrate her life. Jodie's tribute to Kim should be such a comfort to you both, Bob & Jean, and be so proud to have raised two such outstanding individuals. Kim is now one of our very special angels. Comfort and prayers from your dearest friends. Helen & Spike -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: JENNIFER (MCAULIFFE) PATTISON City Naughton Sent: 8.46 am - sat 15 feb 2003 Bob, Jean and Jodie, I thoughts and prayers are with you now. ords can't express how sad I was to hear the news of Kim's passing. She was involved in so much and has left her mark in our community. Losign a loved one is very difficult but her love for life and her strength with help you get through this. Again my prayers are with you all! Jen (McAuliffe ) Pattison -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: David Carlson City Toronto/Sudbury Sent: 12.12 am - sat 15 feb 2003 Jean,Bob and Jodie... My sincere condolences for your loss. Kim was a special person. I knew Kim as a friend, advocate, professional associate, and coworker. I am blessed to have known her and am a better person for the experience. Kim always had a smile and was a positive influence on many people including myself. My time with her over the years are memories I cherish and carry forward with me. She had integrity and clarity that I respect and admire. She leaves a wonderful legacy of how a person, regardless of their own challenges in life, can make a difference for those around them. Kim, you are missed. Your spirit lives on with me in fond memories. Thank you for your friendship. David Carlson -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Jerry Gorman City Sudbury Sent: 11.24 pm - fri 14 feb 2003 I met Kim about four years ago when I first started driving for Sudbury Handi Transit. When I saw her name on my schedule, I looked forward to having her on my bus as she was always a "sparkle on some of my dullest days". I will never forget that sparkle. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Lisa Tremblay Sent: 8.10 pm - fri 14 feb 2003 Dear Jean, Bob and Jodie - I feel very fortunate to have met Kim and to know a little bit of the story of your family, as told to me by all of you over the years. When I visited your home, Kim was always very welcoming. She would think about my comfort and check in to see if there was something I might need. Like all of you, she was very generous in heart. I hope you take great solace in knowing that you created a loving family that Kim could count on and be herself in. Not everyone has that. Love, Lisa -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Judy & Lionel Courtemanche City Sudbury Sent: 11.07 am - fri 14 feb 2003 We pray that Kim is at peace and with her heavenly Father. We know how much she was loved and admired and how very much she will be missed. Her legacy will live on in all of us who were privileged to know her, however briefly. We pray too for Jean, Bob and Jody. May God comfort all of you and the other members of your family as you struggle through the dark days of this terrible loss. Our hearts are broken as we try to imagine your sadness. Kim was so lucky to have you for her family - you gave her a quality of life that she deserved to have and you gave it generously on a daily basis. We believe that Kim will always be with you in spirit and hope that brings you some comfort. May God hold all of you in the palm of his hand. Love from Judy and Lionel -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Ron & Germaine Larmon City Lively Sent: 11.20 pm - thu 13 feb 2003 Dear Bob, Jean & Jodie, Perhaps the sadness you feel now may never completely go away, but it will get lighter. Kim's life was a succession of victories. She faced each challenge with determination and conquered each struggle one by one. I will always remember the picture of Kim when she was very young, probably not more than a year old, and her hand is raised pointing upwards. Even at that early age Kim was telling us "I am going up as far as I can go and nothing is going to stop me from getting there." Though Kim was in a wheelchair, she walked very tall, she completed her mission and left all of us a very important message...never say I can't. Germaine Larmon -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Ken and Peg McConnell City ON. Sent: 4.58 pm - thu 13 feb 2003 This message is from Kim's nanny, Peg. I have many fond memories of Kim. She used to enjoy camping so much. We used to take her sister, Jodie, along. We liked going to Windy Lake, the best. Everything you needed (like warm showers!) was just across the campsite. We had bacon and eggs on the Coleman every morning. I cooked the girls potatoes and stew right on the open fire. We all liked staying in the camper trailer. We liked it when it rained at night. Kim's grandpa took her on lots of walks, and the girls, when they were young, really loved when we took them to McDonalds and Harveys. All I have is fond memories of our camping days. Peg McConnell -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Laura Miller City Guelph Sent: 3.49 pm - thu 13 feb 2003 When I was a kid I used to dream about what it would be like to have a sister. I used to think it would be the most amazing thing that could possibly happen. There are times when I would be sad that I never had a sister. I can't imagine what it's like to have a sister and then lose her. I wasn't lucky enough to have known Kim, but we did share a birthday, Nov. 26. If astrology has any truth to it then I know she was a complex and energetic person who could drive you crazy one minute and make you want to put her up for sainthood the next. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Donna Burns City Guelph Sent: 12.14 pm - thu 13 feb 2003 Dear Jodie, Jean & Bob I unfortunately never got the opportunity to meet Kim, which is without a doubt a great loss for me. However, Jodie after having read your eulogy I feel like I do know her. Jodie you had spoken to me often of your "Big Sis" and I remember the most incredible roses she sent you for your birthday last year. So as I take a moment to have a little cry for Kim, I know she was very lucky to have you as a sister. Love to all Donna -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Diane Dupont City Toronto Sent: 11.51 am - thu 13 feb 2003 Dear Jodie and family, I guess the only question haunting our minds is "why?" Kim's life was still in the season of springtime... full of possibilities... Just like the spring season already carries all the fruits that will be maturing throughout the other seasons, I realize, visiting Kim's website, that she was already sharing so many good things amoung her friends, her family, her network. The tree of her life had already come to its maturity and has already achieved so many "possibilities". The seasons will now pass by... but Kim will always stay, in our minds and in our hearts, like a hymn to the spring. Lots of love to all of you, Diane -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Sherri McAuliffe City Sudbury Sent: 9.53 am - thu 13 feb 2003 Dear Jodie, Jean and Bob I met Kim a couple of times, and she was always smiling and always friendly. Lee-Ann always spoke very highly of her. You are in my thoughts and prayers. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: David and Marg Kechnie City Sudbury Sent: 9.28 am - thu 13 feb 2003 This site is a wonderful idea. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: andrew stoddart Sent: 8.38 am - thu 13 feb 2003 Bob, Jean and Jodie, I am so sorry for your loss. I have thought a great deal about you over the years and treasure the time I spent with your family. Although I didn't know Kim as well as I knew you she was most in my thoughts, as I knew the constant stuggle she had to endure. She always stuck me as a kindered spirit--she was unbelievable kind, generous and pleasant to all she encountered but you always knew, by that certain look in her eye, that she had the power of a tiger. She was a very strong woman. To live her life with bravado, warmth and tenderness required a disposition that few of us can claim. I had always know that Kim was special and that she infected everyone she met with her charm. I did not realize that her contribution to this world was so encompassing until I saw her memorial page. She truley affected the lives of thousands of people. Her spirit blessed all of us but I can only imagine the encouragement and sence of perseverance she offered to others seeking acceptance and inclusion. Kim will continue to touch the hearts of everyone who knew her. My thoughts are with you, Andrew -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Janna G. Scarrow-Jongkind Homepage: http://www.meaford.com/mair City Meaford Sent: 8.03 am - thu 13 feb 2003 What beautiful memories and tributes to Kim. My deepest condolences and hope that the joy and strength she carried will help her family and friends through these sorrowful days. I look forward to meeting Jean in May. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Bob Busby City Gloucester Ontario K1T 1J8 Sent: 10.38 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 To the Family of Kimberly Anne McConnell, Members of DAWN and others who knew Kim. I, on behalf of Somerset West Action Network (SWAN) in Ottawa. wish to pass on to you our Prayers and thoughts at the loss of such a great Activist on behalf of DAWN and All People. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Tara Trimmer City Hanmer Sent: 9.53 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 My thoughts and my heart go out to Jean & Bob and to Jodie whom I've never had the pleasure of meeting. Jean and Bob are such dear friends of my parents and in turn my friends too. Always know that friends are there for one another whether it me lending an ear to listen or a sholder to lean on. Take care and accept my utmost sympathy for your loss. Luv, Tara! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Bam Fournier City Sudbury Sent: 9.43 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 Heroes come in all shapes and sizes and from different walks in our path of life. How lucky I am, to have been in such close touch with this fine young woman. I am truly going to miss my "Buddy". Kim had one the biggest hearts imagineable and carried with her love, compassion, and an abundant supply of tenacity. Life was full of challenges for Kim, yet she conquered them all, never once looking back. I admired her for that. Kim was my hero and a true and loving friend. Thank you dearheart for your genuine friendship. It was like no other. Farewell mon amie. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Michael Meaden City Mississauga Sent: 9.22 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 To Kim: You touched a great many people throughout your life, in a pure and selfless manner. You have accomplished a great deal in your short 38 years. A multitude of accomplishments and mountain of friendships. It is difficult to understand your early departure. Clearly you have earned your wings and early entrance to the kingdom of Heaven. To Jean, Bob and Jodie: Kim will be sadly missed in body but will remain with us in spirit. She has touched the hearts of so many people and graced the world by her presence. Her smile and humour will be sadly missed but will remain an enduring memory to comfort us all. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Renée Lanthier City Sudbury Sent: 8.37 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 Dear Jean and family I never had the privilege of knowing Kim personally, however, Jean, when you talked about Kim it was with sooooo much love and caring. After reading all the testimonies expressed by all her friends, I can now understand how precious she was. Jodi's eulogy touched me profoundly. I wish I would of had the privilege of knowing your daughter. God Bless you all. Take care. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Bonnie Ewing City Sudbury Sent: 8.03 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 So very sorry to hear about Kim. This site is a beautiful tribute to Kim who was so strong & positive in her life. My prayers & thoughts are with you Jean & Family. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Marg & Bob Gavin City Sudbury, ON Sent: 7.29 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 Dear Jean & Bob, my sister Helen passed on Kim's website to us and we are so impressed. She was a remarkable girl, I only had the pleasure of meeting her once and it was an Anne Murray concert at the arena several years ago. We share your grief today and pray that all your wonderful memories will keep you going. Our sincere sympathy. Marg & Bob Gavin -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Laurette & Tony Fellbaum City Harrow, Ontario Sent: 7.04 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 A giant has walked upon us, gentle, unassuming, joyful and O so courageous. We noticed her but not nearly enough as she lived her difficult and challenging life to the full. We see the deep tracks that she has left in her passing and they are difficult to fill. Yet she beckons and challenges us all. To put away our petty complaints, to awaken to our strengths as she and her loving and supportive mother, father and sister so clearly did. To use the gifts that we are all given yet to often hide as we complain about the unfairness of our limitations and weaknesses. Kim you had greater disabilities than most of us will ever know yet you did not complain. You truly were a giant and now have easily made the transition to angel supreme. May your life be a model and inspiration to us all and may we too awaken to our gifts and leave lasting tracks as you so clearly have. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Vicki McAuliffe Laframboise City Sudbury Sent: 5.03 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 I was so sorry to hear about Kim's sudden passing. Jodie, your eulogy was absolutely beautiful. What an amazing tribute to a wonderful sister. You and your parents are in my thoughts and prayers, always. Love Vicki -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Chu Xu City Malabo, Equatorial Guinea, Africa Sent: 3.24 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 I haven't met Kim, but through her mother, Jean, I can imagine she must be a very kind, warm-hearted and self-relianced lady, she left too early and too fast. Please accept my deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Sly Castaldi City Guelph Sent: 3.21 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 Dear Bob, Jean and Jodie; To lose Kim is to lose a part of yourselves, a piece of the fabric of your lives...may the strong and vibrant threads that were Kim weave her spirit into your memory. With much love from your friends in Guelph. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Bea Jackson City Sudbury Sent: 2.40 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 So many times in the past, I'd find myself in the halls of the Special Needs Centre at Cambrian. This is where I first was introduced to Kim. I was impressed with her confidence, finesse and gentleness. Her voice was beautiful. It was obvious by the way she spoke, she took pride in her work. Kim's words of welcome and guidance to visitors in need of assistance or direction were reassuring. Kim's respect for individuality was evident each time we talked. A positive attitude and cheery disposition were trademarks I remember her for. Thank-you for giving me the opportunity to know more about this gifted young person - a true role model for all to be inspired by! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: shirley hynes Homepage: http://dawn.thot.net/kim/ City toronto Sent: 2.01 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 I was very sorry to hear about Kim's passing. I knew Kim through my mother, Jean Orasi, who lived at the Casa Bella. My mother was a great friend of Kim's grandparents- Mr. & Mrs McConnell and she spoke very highly of Kim. Please accept my sincere condolences on Kim's passing and be sure to give my very best regards to Kim's grandparents, Mr & Mrs. McConnell. Sincerely, Shirley Hynes -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Lee-Ann McAuliffe Campbell City Naughton, ON Sent: 1.41 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 What a sweet soul Kim was. A joy to run into. How she must have feared for her life when Jodie and I hitched a ride down 3rd Ave at full speed. I can still remember her laughing when we finally came to a stop. Her patience and kindness in putting up with all the antics of her little sister and her sister's silly friends. I only have fond memories of Kim and can't tell you how much I admired her independence and determination. The eulogy was beautiful. We were all very sad to hear this news but God knows, we all need angels like Kim to watch over and guide us. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love Lee-Ann -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Nancy Bryce Sent: 12.21 pm - wed 12 feb 2003 I was a co-worker of Kim's during her time at Cambrian College. I especially remember her from the time we spent at the school off LaSalle Blvd where many of our re-entry programs for women and individuals who had suffered long-term unemployment were held. This was also the school where many new Canadian Citizens first learned English. Kim was so versatile she provided support and friendship to this diverse group of students in a manner that showed her understanding of people and her love of life. We had many happy, well downright 'silly' times over there and her sunny face and wonderful laugh were all a part of many good memories. She and I were together in the office when we heard of the first shuttle accident. She was truly moved. Another memory I have is of the day when one of our more 'difficult' students called the office to make threats to our safety at that little school. Kim was ready to stay there and do her job, but as we were the only ones at the site that day, I urged her to come with me to the main campus. We closed up shop and came over to the college to explain to Karen Shaw that we did not feel safe there and were willing to be re-assigned at the college for the day!!! Kim would have bravely stayed on. She commented that this poor guy was really having a hard time in life. Over the years our paths went different ways, but it was always so nice to see her when we did meet up. My deepest sympathy to Kim's friends and family, she was a lovely young woman. Nancy -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Suanne Haddad City Sudbury Sent: 11.51 am - wed 12 feb 2003 I had the pleasure of working with Kim at Cambrian College. We had many good laughs together with our group. The funeral service was a tribute to a beautiful person who leaves us with a legacy of inspiration. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Pamela Morel City Sudbury Sent: 11.14 am - wed 12 feb 2003 Kim touched the heart of the many people who knew her. I will always rememer her kindness and infectious smile... Pam -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Chris Dodge Sent: 8.38 pm - tue 11 feb 2003 This a special way to remember a very special lady. She will always be an inspiration for our family. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Courtney Middleton City Toronto Sent: 8.03 pm - tue 11 feb 2003 Kim, although I have few adult memories of you, my childhood memories are full of you, and I will ALWAYS remember how you faced life, and never let anything get you down. You will be missed. Courtney. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Marilyn Brinjak City sudbury Sent: 7.40 pm - tue 11 feb 2003 Kim was a very sweet girl,she will be sadly missed. I made lots of fudge for Kim which she always shared with her family at christmas.Rest in peace Kim we will miss you.I am sure you will be somebody's angel now. Marilyn Brinjak -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Mary Koroscil, President Casa Bella Tenants Club City Sudbury, Ontario Sent: 6.10 pm - tue 11 feb 2003 What a beautiful tribute to our sweet Kim. She was an inspiration to all of us here at Casa Bella and will be missed by all of us. If any of our tenants was in the hospital, you knew that Kim would drop by to visit you. If she missed seeing you around the building, she would inquire as to how you were and if you were sick, a get well card would be at your door with her wishes for a speedy recovery. That was our Kim! Always thinking of others. We will miss her dearly but know that she is in Heaven and now is our Special Angel watching over us as Casa Bella.... -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Gail & Ken Middleton City Azilda Sent: 5.40 pm - tue 11 feb 2003 Sorry, so sorry, to Jean Bob & Jodie. You've been robbed of so many years of 'ENJOYING' Kim. Her quick mind, and endearing smile can only be memories now. Our hearts go out to you, we are proud to have known Kim. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: margaret Cole Sent: 4.00 pm - tue 11 feb 2003 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Andrew Lowe City SUDBURY Sent: 3.29 pm - tue 11 feb 2003 Kim is an inspiration to us all. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Tamara Fiacconi City Sudbury Sent: 1.30 pm - tue 11 feb 2003 This is a very beautiful tribute to Kim. Thank you for sharing this with all who knew and loved her. Sincerely, Tamara Fiacconi (Casa Bella) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Christine Bold City Guelph Sent: 10.19 am - tue 11 feb 2003 I didn't know Kim--I wish I had--but I admire her sister Jodie very much. Deepest sympathies to the family and many thanks to the person who put together this inspiring site. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Pa Sent: 9.05 am - tue 11 feb 2003 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Heather Daigle (Pakkala) City Sudbury Sent: 7.26 am - tue 11 feb 2003 Your in my thought and prayer. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Steve & Natalie McQueen City Phoenix, AZ Sent: 10.46 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 Kim will always be remembered for her incedible kindness and highly motivated spirit. It was a blessing to know her. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Janet Wood City Guelph Sent: 9.21 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 I didn't know Kim but I've visited her site to see jodie's words and offer her my condolences. Kim must have been a remarkable person! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Lillian Clair Sent: 7.51 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 Visited the Dawn site. What a wonderful gesture and a beautiful tribute to your darling "Kim". Having trouble accessing Jodie's touching tribute to her sister. Want to send it Sherri and Shawna who have both expressed shock and sorrow at Kim's passing. My thoughts have been with all of you this past weekend and words alone cannot express the sorrow I feel in my heart for you Jean, Bob, Jodie and also especially for her loving grandparents who must truly be devestated. The "old" take it so hard when the "young" pass away before them. Take care all and remember your friends are thinking of you and wanting to do whatever we can in the difficult days ahead. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: John l. Fraser City Sudbury Sent: 6.32 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 Bob, Jean and Jodie The courage Kim exhibited day by day should be the courage we all have in how we approach life. Her joy was infectious. Iam sure that you miss her, remember the courage and joy she gave to all. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Ric Knowles City Guelph Sent: 4.13 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 I didn't know Kim. I am, though, proud to know Jodie, and I send my deepest sympathy and strongest support. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Jean McKechnie Sent: 3.49 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 To Jean, Bob & Family, I just returned to work today after a two-week vacation and was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Your daughter was truly a remarkable young woman. Please take solace in knowing that Kim's love and inspiration will always be with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Jean McKechnie -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Christine Dow City Guelph Sent: 2.57 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 I have known Kim since she was a young child,seeing her rise to every challenge and be victorious. I got to know her better when she worked at Cambrian College and were co-workers. I knew her, and loved her, learned from her, and was blessed by her. To her family and friends I offer my sympathy. For myself I celebrate her life -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Kim Mackay City London, ON Sent: 2.43 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 I didn't know Kim, but through her sister Jodie I know of her courage and perserverance. She will be greatly missed by her family and friends. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Margaret Nosek City Houston, TX Sent: 2.04 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 My condolences to Kim's family. This website is such a touching tribute to a truly loving person. I wish I'd had the privilege of knowing her. Margaret A. Nosek, PhD Executive Director Center for Research on Women with Disabilities Professor Department of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation Baylor College of Medicine 3440 Richmond, Suite B Houston, TX 77046 713-960-0505 713-961-3555 fax mnosek@bcm.tmc.edu www.bcm.tmc.edu/crowd/ -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Fran Amenta Sent: 1.27 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We, girls were very shocked to hear of your loss. We never met Kim, but feel that we know her by your loving stories of her to us. With our deepest sympathy, Love, Fran, Lorraine, Maron, Jackie & Bob -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Michael & Virginia Abitong City Sagamok Sent: 12.40 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 We only met her mother, but if Kimberley was anything like her mother. Then the world will truly miss her presence, and the heavens will gladly embrace one more angel. Our prayers are with Kimberley's family and her friends. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Connie Cooper Sent: 12.15 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 Jody, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I don't know you very well and of course did not know Kim, but after reading your eulogy, I was touched at the fond memories you will carry forever about your beloved sister. She sounds like she was a wonderful person and the world was truly blessed to have her, sadly not long enough. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Leslie Barber City Sault Ste. Marie Sent: 12.07 pm - mon 10 feb 2003 Please accept my sympathy. Reading through the information on this site makes me think of my own children. I know I will feel very proud if their lives compare to that of Kimberly. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Elizabeth Diehl City Brampton, Ontario Sent: 11.37 am - mon 10 feb 2003 With deepest sympathy to Kimberly's family and friends. I had the pleasure of working directly with Kimberly during her years of employment at the Ministry of Northern Development and Mines. As Office Administrator at the Minister's office in Toronto, I was in daily contact with Kimberly and I always found it so enjoyable to work with her. Kimberly was always such a happy person and one who was willing to take that extra step to assist in any situation. I will miss Kimberly and will always cherish many fond memories. Elizabeth Diehl -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Cornelia Bryant City Sault Ste. Marie, ON Sent: 10.15 am - mon 10 feb 2003 I would like to send my condolences after learning about the death of Kimberly Anne McConnell -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Lexi Bridges City Temagami Sent: 8.47 am - mon 10 feb 2003 I can't believe it. Kim is gone! Kim, it should have been me. My doctors say they have no futher protocols to offer me. Keep the seat next to you warm for me. It won't be much longer before I join you. Got my cowboy boots ready. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Name: Roberta Livingstone City North Bay Sent: 7.41 am - mon 10 feb 2003 I never had the privilege of knowing Kim personally, but I have heard testimonies to the beautiful soul that she was, may God's peace fill the empty space that Kim has left in your hearts.