Guestbook Entries Name: Norah Margaret Emery City Georgetown, Ontario Sent: 14.19 - 9/2 50 years ago, 2 little girls became a part of my life, Katy and Nancy. I was just old enough to occasionally baby-sit my nieces. Over the years as they grew, I got them their 1st Hoola-hoops, (anyone remember them in the 50's). Later, after the Winnipeg move, I sent them Vanity Sets (Brush, comb, mirror, etc.) with the thought that they could now practice with Mom's make-up - not mine. Nancy was lucky (if you can use this word in the circumstances) to have loving and supportive family; husband, children, parents, siblings and other relatives that cared. Far too many persons must make this last journey alone. Nancy was vibrant with LIFE - you could almost see her bouncing along. She will not be forgotten. Norah Margaret Emery Name: Darrel Brittner City Banff Sent: 12.59 - 9/2 You were my sister first and then a great friend. I will always remember and celebrate our aquaintance as you have left me with fond memories of the left side of life. Most of all I am truly grateful for the love of my life which you introduced me to. We will forever be thankful for your astute ability to understand us and never forget the blessing you delivered. You have impacted my life more than anyone I have ever known for such a brief period of time. You will always be in my heart and thoughts. Know you are watching me with admiration and respect and I will be forever grateful for your trust and understanding. God will definitely bless you as you are absolutely deserving. Name: Brittani Balanowski City Georgetown Sent: 22.06 - 7/2 Kathleen, I site is beautiful, and so is your sister!! I know that this past month has been tough for you, but you have a great support system behind you!! Name: Gail Geyer City Calgary Sent: 15.58 - 4/2 Nancy was (I hate the past tense) very, very special to me. I first met Nancy through work. From the very beginning I really liked her. Nancy has a very special place in my heart and she always will because Nancy touched my life in a monumental way. It was Nancy who helped me grow into a strong and independent person. She taught me so much about life and how to make the best of it. My biggest regret is that I never got the chance to say those words to her. Nancy has, forever, a piece of my soul with her. I miss her terribly. My only solice is that I know in my heart that Nancy is in a far better place now. May God always keep you close Nancy. (I guess in a way I will always have a piece of her too). Through time thoughtts of Nancy will always bring a smile to my face and lightness to my heart as that is how she made me feel when we were together. Name: Ida Hardstaff Sent: 18.12 - 24/1 I was not privileged to have known Nancy more than a few years. She brightened our lives as no one else could. She is always in my heart. Name: Erynn Ceallaigh City Toronto Sent: 15.01 - 23/1 I am truly sorry that I did not have the pleasure of knowing this beautiful, loving, and courageous lady. The world has lost a great lady but, I'm sure Heaven is more radient with the light of her love. I have since made her sister Kate's aquaintance. Part of Nancy will always be here with us. She lives on in her wonderful sister Kate. I'm truly sorry I didn't have the opportunity to know this beautiful soul. Nancy most certainly enriched the lives of all she touched. May the good "Lord" bless and keep you Nancy. Name: Janice & Mitch Wein City: Vernon Sent: Mon 20 Jan 2003 06:44:55 PM CST We will always cherish our moments with Nancy because her bubbly personality would instantly brighten up a room. Nancy knew how to let her light shine. Brian, although it seems like the sun has set forever...it will come up again. Just know our thoughts and prayers are with you and know that heaven in a brighter place! Name: Stuart City: Invermere, B.C. Sent: Mon 20 Jan 2003 12:43:53 PM CST Nancy will always have a special place in my life. To Brian and the boys - my thoughts are with you always. I grieve for myself, not beacuse of Nancys' passing but because of her life. I had the privilege of being a part of this and I feel I am a bettter person as a result. There are many people that will not be given this opportunity - to their misfortune. I want to thank the powers that be for allowing me the opportunity to say my farewells. Nancy has shown me what real courgage is in facing such a daunting task. I am not a religious man but if there is a heaven the angels are now handing out sunglasses because of this new great light that has arrived. A beacon that will certainly help me find my way. I take solace from the fact that Nancy is clearing a path for all of the souls that loved her. God knows I'll need someone in my corner. Thank you Nancy for being my sister. Name: terryn City: penticton b.c. Sent: Fri 17 Jan 2003 03:44:12 PM CST sorry for your loss and may god be with you all Name: Joan Mackay City: Calgary Sent: Fri 17 Jan 2003 03:37:48 PM CST You will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Name: Cheryl Eide City: Calgary Sent: Thu 16 Jan 2003 07:47:17 PM CST I was so sorry to hear of Nancy's passing, for now she's with her angel, and not in any more pain. She was such a nice lady always so thoughtful of others. She will be sadly missed by those who knew and loved her. I'm sure glad I had the chance to meet her. Name: Priscilla Reyce City: Georgetown Sent: Thu 16 Jan 2003 06:24:00 PM CST Even though I have never met Nancy she sounds like she was a beautiful combination of both Chuck and Marjorie whom I know and love dearly. Chuck, Marjorie, Katy and family my heart is with you at this time of sorrow. Celebrate Nancy's life as she lived it. To the fullest. Name: Charles Theriault City: Toronto Sent: Thu 16 Jan 2003 12:15:14 PM CST Name: Lida Currie Homepage: http://concepts@nbnet.nb.ca Sent: Thu 16 Jan 2003 09:54:10 AM CST Kathaleen I had the special meeting with you and your parents last year when you visited Moncton, NB and what a special family, my heart goes out to you and your love ones for the lost of a beautiful Sister. a friend always, Lida my thoughts an prayers are with you Name: Barb Rowland(Steed) City: Calgary AB Sent: Thu 16 Jan 2003 09:11:01 AM CST What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful person! Nancy and I were in Currie Junior High School together and I always remember her radiant smile and her friendliness towards everyone. I never saw Nancy without a smile on her face and she never had a bad word to say about anyone. I hadn't seen Nancy in years until 2002 while I was staying in Fernie, who should suddenly fly into the lobby of the hotel that I was staying at with that same incredible smile, but Nancy. She was just as I remembered from our school days. That memory of her will stay with me forever!! Name: Garry & Flora Noel City: Moncton, N.B. Sent: Thu 16 Jan 2003 05:19:25 AM CST Our thoughts are with you all during this time of sorrow..It was a shock for us to hear of Nancy,s illness and than her passing...Brian..as I said many times to both you and nancy before..our door is always open.."there's no price tags on the doors of newfoundland"..so when your ready to come and visit..just do it.. Love always. Garry & Flora Name: Adele Salois City: Calgary Sent: Wed 15 Jan 2003 09:58:04 PM CST What a touching tribute. I met Nancy once many years ago. To Nancy's family, I wish to express my deepest sympathy Name: Tanja Homepage: http://tanjaheidmann.beep.de City: Bücken Sent: Wed 15 Jan 2003 01:25:17 PM CST Hello Kathleen, I was shocked when I read your mail and when you mentioned the website. Keep up the good work and I wish you many friends and helpful people to support you. Name: Donna Woodman City: Calgary Alberta Sent: Wed 15 Jan 2003 01:12:09 PM CST I golf with a wonderful and very large group of ladies and many I only know by their first name and to see them. I thought I knew who Nancy was , but was seeing another face in my mind. It was not until I saw her picture on your website did I really get hit. I know this Nancy and enjoyed this Nancy , laughed with, golfed, took golf lessons and enjoyed the occasional drink with this Nancy – I didn’t know she was ill and cannot believe she has gone to heaven so quickly. She will most definitely be missed by many people. She was always sooooo full of vim and vigor and fun - everyone wanted to be around her. She was a very good golfer and gave it her all - really admired her passion and ability to laugh it off - good or bad. I will always remember her face, her ability to focus so completely, her smile, and her laugh. She has left a lasting and wonderful impression on those she touched and she will most definitely be remembered. Her family and friends were very lucky to have been touched by Nancy, and I am so sorry for your loss. Life is so precious and never moreso until we receive news about one of our own special angels. This Website is a wonderful thing, thank you so much for allowing so many to share. With much sadness, I remember and remain Your golfing buddy and friend, Donna Woodman Name: Maria Cervania Cabrera City Dhahran, Saudi Arabia Sent: 14.41 - 14/1 I got to know and liked Nancy ever since she started working at the RGH in the 80's. It was quite a shock for me to hear of her passing. I did not know that she was ill - she seemed to me like someone who will always be around - she always made me laugh - she was honest and direct, friendly, the defender of the underdogs and always the first one to help out. I admired her jovial spirit and her many talents. I would like to extend my heartfelt and sincere sympathy to her family. She will be greatly missed - I know I will . . . Name: Paula Marie Bouzane City Ottawa, Ontario Sent: 19.37 - 13/1 Altough we never met I wish to let the family of Nancy know that they are in my prayers. Peace to you all. Name: Kathy Cline City Calgary Sent: 23.58 - 12/1 Nancy...I will remember you always for your smile, your quick wit and the way you lit up the room when you entered! I had the pleasure of working 'across the hall' from Nancy from 1989 - 2000 at the Rockyview General Hospital. Nancy was a strong and yet tender spirit that spoke to what she felt was honest and true. I will remember her always as the friendly, outgoing co-worker she was. To Nancy, her family and friends were upmost in her life and I heard of them daily. They say people come into our lives for a reason...I have been blessed to have known you Nancy...until we meet again. Brian, may you and the boys find solace in the many memories she has left. Name: Bonnie Swanton Sent: 20.47 - 12/1 I worked with Nancy for three years at the Place 9-6 office. At first, Nancy was a lot to take in and I shied away from her for a bit, but then I got to know her as she joined our group for lunch. I soon looked forward to her laughter, her great sense of humer and her ability to always get to the heart of the matter. Lunch with Nancy was always fun and entertaining. One day she came to me and asked me if I would like her craft projects, as she knew I dabbled in that. Brian and Nancy, at that time, were thinking of starting a Bed and Breakfast back home and she was needing to get rid of her stuff. I came home with her one day after work and was overwhelmed by all that she had for me. My car was full to overflowing with beautiful baskets and crafts of every description. It is such a treasure to have them now. Everytime I see a teddy bear in a store, I shed a tear, but I always take the time to give them a hug and a squeeze. My favorite memory of Nancy is the last time I saw her. It was at Shirley's retirement dinner at the Red Lobster. Nancy bee-bopped into the restaurant looking lovely in a denin jumper with her hair pulled back in a pony tail, complete with curly pony tail wig attached. That pony tail suited her as it bee-bopped about just like Nancy did. I think she's in heaven, organizing the angels and still wearing that pony tail saying, Pitter-Patter, lets get at 'er! I will always miss her. Name: Leila and Keith Rumley Sent: 16.58 - 12/1 What a bueatiful tribute to Nancy! Our memories of Nancy in the few days of visiting here with us in Cmpbell River are indeed of "a bright shing star". She made everyone around her feel happy and glad to be in her presence. Love to you all. Name: Michelle Harvey City Calgary Sent: 21.11 - 11/1 Nancy was my Godmother. But not just any old Godmother. She gave herself the title of my "Airy Fairy Godmother". It made me feel a little like Cinderella knowing I had a Godmother who, with the swish of her wand, could make things OK. She did all the things a girl would want - took me to tea, bought me gifts (including at least 30 thimbles from around the world), gave me very practical advice about life, finances and MEN! and she even kept me employed once or twice! I'll miss her and it hurts knowing she won't be around to see my wedding one day, my first child. But - I trust in God and know that she'll watching from Heaven and continue to make dreams come true for me, as any Fairy Godmother would do. I love you Nancy, Michelle Name: Nancy Carson City Calgary, Alberta Sent: 19.14 - 11/1 "Grief never ends, but it changes. It's a passage, not a place to stay. The sense of loss must give way if we're to value the life that was lived." Lois Wyse The sense of loss may take some time to give way, but I know Nancy is continuing to watch over us from where she is now. Thank you so much for including the picture of Nancy and Katy – I look at that picture and can hear Nancy’s laugh. As I read the “Nancy Phrases” part of this website, I smiled remembering that “tickety boo” and “too bad, so sad” were never part of my vocabulary until Nancy came along. We met back in the 1980s when she and Brian first came to Calgary. I was working at the Holy Cross Hospital and Nancy filled in as temp relief for one of the secretaries who was away. She decided that since we both were named Nancy we had to be friends. And so we were - and how fortunate I was. I feel honoured to have known such a wonderful lady. I will miss her. Heaven does, indeed, have one more angel. Name: lorene schingler City calgary Sent: 14.15 - 11/1 A ray of sunlight to all that knew her. She would light up a room with laughter everytime I went in to see her at the Rockyview Hospital. My thoughtsand prayers go out to Brian and Family Name: Mike and Jacki Jameson Sent: 13.13 - 11/1 Lovely tribute to a Lovely woman! Name: Marie Murphy (soon Plourde) Sent: 23.03 - 10/1 To Andrew and the Family, May the love exchanged so readily between you and Nancy be a comfort to you and a source of strength as you journey through your time of grieving. Name: Suzanne Morris City Toronto Sent: 21.30 - 10/1 I met Nancy at Marjorie and Chuck's 50th wedding anniversary, though I had spoken to her on the phone a few times before that. I know Nancy mostly through her brother Andrew and sister Kathleen and the stories they've told to me over the last 4 yeats. I was not dissapointed with the lady I eventually met. She was everything that was billed. As I am blind, I was not fortuante enough to be dazzled by her very personal atire. She had a distictive way of speaking that caught my ear. I really liked to hear her talk. In June of 2002, Nancy and Kathleen came to visit Andrew and I. I really enjoyed listening to the three of them go at it, reminising and telling stories from their lives. It made me feel happy to have Nancy here. She made her presence known and felt and she did not make me feel like I had to be anything but myself just as she was. When news of her illness was known, I felt deeply for her and her family. As Andrew was always around, the emotions were intimate. I had not experienced this in my life and it was extremely hard not to break down in tears. I only wished that I had gotten to know Nancy better than I was ultimately allowed. Love Suzanne Name: Deb Snedden City Canmore, AB Sent: 18.55 - 10/1 Nancy is dearly missed at Sunset-Alpine. She was a bubbly presence here every day, and always had a smile on her pretty face that made coming to work that much more fun! Name: Irene DeBoni Sent: 18.35 - 10/1 Nancy was part of the first group of students that I taught (at St. Mary's in Calgary). So from that perspective she was very special to me. While we didn't see each other often, we always kept in touch. And whether she was announcing that she was going to join the forces, or was home for a vacation from Germany, or was living again in Calgary her basic personality was always the same. She always had spunk, a real vitality. Thus when we first started receiving emails from her saying she had cancer, I thought "if anyone can beat this, she can!" So what do I take from her? I guess the increased motivation to really live; to not be passive. We can't determine how or when we "exit" but we can certainly determine how we live while we are here. So thank you, Nancy for reminding me of this. Name: Judy Oerlemans City Georgetown Sent: 15.04 - 10/1 I am dictating this story to Kathleen. My most recent memory of Nancy is a time when she visited Georgetown for her parent's 50th Wedding Anniversary. We went to the Georgetown Legion for some 'downtime', and it was at about that time that the Harris Government had issued all Ontario residents their $200 tax rebate cheques. Most of us at the table were quipping lines like, "Oh sure, what good is $200 going to do me", when Nancy piped up with, "Well, why don't you send the cheques back and tell them to stick it where the sun don't shine"? But she chose another word, which I'm sure you all know! For this comment the barkeep came over to our table and dropped a penalty bucket in front of her. This is a wee pail, where if you are caught using language not suited for Her Majesty's Legions, you must pay a tax of $ .25 (25 cents). This gesture incited the tableful of revelers to all get on board with Nancy and to make a long story short, within an hour the bucket had just about as much as the $200.00 Ontario government cheque value in it. It was a grand and good uproarious time that night .... and she helped us all hold our own! Actually I think we got the entire 'bar room' involved. Lots of fun! Great memories Nancy! I'll never forget you, because of your sister and that I am almost another kid around your Mom and Dad's home. Love, Judy Name: Heidi Reckord City Calgary Sent: 15.02 - 10/1 Nancy will always be my "rock". I remember meeting her for the first time. Her hair was spiked on the top and long at the back. I remember thinking to myself, who the heck is the woman? She definitely made a statement. Little did I know she would touch my life in so many ways. It is only now in hindsight I realize how much she touched my life. She was an amazing woman who made time for every person. I will remember her as the only woman who literally had to live with a daytimer because she was going to fit it all in, even the 20 minutes to brush her teeth on a girls night out! She was such a support for me and I was always in awe about how much she could squeeze into a day. She was always there to lend an ear and sometimes give a different perspective on a situation. She always took care of business, but also believed in letting her hair down. She was always a fair, compassionate and amazing woman that I will miss to no end. To me this is still so surreal. She was going to fight this and to her, it was just a pain in her butt that she was going to take care of so she could get on with all the wonderful things her and Brian had planned. I look at pictures and can still hear her on my answering machine. A voice I hope I never forget, for she had nothing but positive things to say. Knowing Nancy was a special gift. Friendship was a little piece of her that she left for all who were lucky enough to know her. I miss you Nancy, more than you could know. Name: Jean Hudson City Brampton, Ontario Sent: 13.28 - 10/1 Nancy and I met at the National Defence Medical Centre in Ottawa where we both worked in the Medical Records typing pool. It was my first job and at the tender age of 19 I was in awe of everything this woman, almost the same age as me, had already done! The stories she shared about being in the Navy took my breath away. Here I was haltingly learning to live life on my own and she was whizzing on by on her second or third career. And that is the way that she was. Nothing was too hard, everything was an adventure, life was out there waiting so let's get at it! We used to go out together to restaurants to try different ethnic foods - I particularly remember the Moroccan one with the belly dancer, an experience we later relived in Toronto with our respective husbands. One could never be sure that Nancy was not going to get up there and strut her stuff! I remember her fondness for Waterford crystal (something I didn't even know existed) and meals we made at her place where it was important that everything be laid out "just so". She was out to see me this summer with her sister Katy, before she had any concept that something was wrong. I reminded her of the dress she made for a New Year's dance - I don't think that Nancy was much of a sewer and she had chosen a very difficult Vogue pattern to make. This dress was made of black crepe and in the fashion of the day was voluminous and consequently the hem was miles long. Time was pressing and she brought it to work to sew during her lunch hour and breaks. To make things go quicker she insisted on threading enormously long pieces of thread which were forever getting knotted and tangled. Undeterred she forged ahead and eventually accomplished her task. That was Nancy - where there's a will, there's a way. I can hardly believe that she is no longer with us. As I read the comments in the Guest Book I was impressed by the number of lives that she touched and the people who will miss her. I wish more than anything that I could have held her and said "good-bye". My life is richer for having called her my friend. To her family, my heart breaks for you. I trust you will find comfort in the many wonderful memories you have of that very special person - Nancy. My thoughts are with you. Jean Name: Cindy Badowich City Okotoks, Alberta Sent: 12.08 - 10/1 I had the privilege of knowing Nancy for almost 14 years. We worked together in Transcription at the Rockyview Hospital when she started there in 1989. There was never a dull moment at the office when Nancy was there. She was a guest at my wedding ten years ago and hosted my baby shower when my first child, Connor, was born. We had fun working together in a couple of fashion shows held for the Transcription Association and enjoyed a few fun golf games. I have special memories of Girls Only weekends, where we went away and had alot of fun. She was a tower of strength and courage and would always grab the bull by the horns. My other good friend, Kathy, and I were fortunate to have spent two wonderful fall days with Nancy in the middle of September. We went to Banff to see Brian and Nancy's new condo for the first time and enjoyed our visit very much. This was only about ten days after Nancy's first surgery. She was healing well and in a fighting spirit against the disease, of which she still did not know the official diagnosis at the time. We kept in touch regularly by e-mail and would try to get together every 3 months or so. Little did I know that would be the last time I saw Nancy. We initially thought she would definitely beat this ugly disease. I have many pictures of our times together and will cherish each and every one. She was a wonderful, solid, faithful friend, who I will miss always. I would like to say this is a wonderful tribute to Nancy and great website. I am sure she would approve. My thoughts and prayers go out to Brian and the boys, may Peace Be With You Name: Gloria Boogmans City Calgary Sent: 18.27 - 9/1 I'm certainly going to miss Nancy's wonderful sense of humour at GolfAround. Playing a round with Nancy was always so much fun. What a beautiful website, a fitting tribute to a Grand Lady! Name: Maureen and Ken Arthur City Thornton Hough, Wirral, UK Sent: 16.24 - 9/1 Nancy's Mum and I shared the same grandparents, who had a very hard life in Ireland in the early 1900's. Nancy, along with her young family came to visit in Ireland and England when she was stationed in Germany. With the power of email we got back in touch early in 2002.We enjoyed updating each other on our lives since we last met.I know how much she loved Brian and her family. I am sad at the years that we lost, but I am privelaged to part of the same family. Over here in England, I have some photos of Nancy that she never saw, taken on her visit. I will work at the scanner and share them with you all, as soon as I can. May Nancy's strength, inspire us all. God Bless Name: Marlene Wheeler City Calgary Sent: 14.34 - 9/1 I always enjoyed golfing with Nancy, I loved her approach to the game. We usually saw each other in Radium in the fall at the Car show and caught up on things Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Ron and Marlene Wheeler Name: Paula Emerton City Calgary, AB T3E 5M5 Sent: 14.27 - 9/1 I was so sorry to hear of Nancy's death - I worked in the same area (Health Records) - I was the Health Records Director's Secretary and she was always fun to be around. Her smile was infectious and I enjoyed her sense of humor. I am only sorry I did not know about the funeral before - I would of paid my last respects and send a card or message before this. Name: Lynn Keyes City Calgary Sent: 12.36 - 9/1 I had the pleasure of working with Nancy at the Rockyview Hospital. She was a vibrant caring person who always extended a friendly hand. The world will miss her. Name: Andrew Tutty City Georgetown Sent: 23.15 - 8/1 My heart is comprised of many rooms, Reserved for those whom I dearly love. One, now set aside with bed turned down, light turned on waiting for you to be settled with a gentle hearth enticing you in; Arms of warmth to embrace you my dear sister. Tis here I'll ever see you smile, Your laughter to rejuvenate my ears. Tis here that I'll sit down beside you And love you through all my years. Name: Glen City Georgetown Sent: 22.27 - 8/1 The heavens have another angel. Name: Shawn Golinoski City Calgary, AB Sent: 14.15 - 8/1 I met Nancy in 1992 when I started work at the Rockyview General Hospital. She had huge glasses, a spikey girl mullet, and rings on every finger. She could type like the wind, with her long, red finger nails, and her keyboard was stained pink from the nail polish. I remember her showing me her homemake Tattoos, and me and my girlfriend, soon after that, going out to get our very own. We called her the Mighty Redwood, as she was always the All-Knowing, Omnipotent one and we were her mere saplings - I only hope I can grow to be a Mighty Redwood someday. She was such a pillar of strength for me, and I don't think she knew it. Many times, I would think - "now what would Nancy do or say". I can't believe she is gone....it seems so unreal to me. I lost my mom in August, as well and I ache for Matthew x 2 and Jonathan, and especially for Brian, I can't imagine losing my friend, lover, and partner. God Bless you Brian. The day after her funeral, I was driving back through Banff on my way to Christmas with my dad in Kelowna. I had my three girls with me, as my husband was flying out on Monday. The sky was blue, there wasn't a cloud in it, and the mountains were majestic in their beauty. I looked up in the sky, and remembered Nancy and thought, what an amazing Guardian Angel we all have now!!!!!!!!!!! I will remember her always, Love, Shawn Name: MARY BAIER City SALMON ARM BC Sent: 12.13 - 8/1 I have come to know Nancy's spirit through Rosemary who has generously shared this beautiful and touching journey of your family's struggle for her healing and ultimately your sacrifice to allow her spirit to leave when the appointed time came for her deliverance. Deliverance is not defined by our limited terms of this finite life but we are challenged to expand our awareness to include the infinity of etermal life of which this life is but a small spark. That spark has now ignited to its full radiance and can no longer be contained by the limitation of the flesh. Nancy is all she was but more now that her spirit has been set free. I believe that she has gone to prepare a place for all of you....that where she is we will someday be. Take heart and be at peace in the strength and trust of God's grace....All is not lost although it feels that way now. My prayers are with you for your comfort. Love, Your friend in spirit, Mary Name: Brian Argyle Homepage: http://www.hotrods.ca City Calgary Sent: 11.46 - 8/1 Maureen and I remember Nancy as a warm, bubbly personality, full of vitality and fun. It's hard to imagine she's gone. She'll always be remembered fondly. Name: Sharon-Ann Crawford City Toronto, Ontario Sent: 00.20 - 8/1 May Nancy rest in a peaceful, painfree place. Remember she will always be with you in your heart and watching over you preparing for the day when you will be together again. May God help her family and friends to deal with their grief and loss by remembering and rejoicing in her life. Name: Bonnie Bowen City Strathroy, Ontario Sent: 18.53 - 7/1 May Nancy's family be comforted with the knowledge that they have had the blessing of sharing in Nancy's life. Precious memories forever. Sleep with angels Darling. Name: Daddy City Georgetown, Ontario Sent: 17.13 - 7/1 Death is only an old door Set in a garden wall. On gentle hinges it gives at dusk, When the thrushes call. Along the lintel's green leaves beyond, The light lies still. Very willing and weary feet Go over that sill. There is nothing to trouble any heart, Nothing to hurt at all Death is only a quiet door In an old wall. Author Unknown Miss you, but will let you go, Love Daddy XOXOXO Name: Penny Connolly City Campbellville Sent: 15.36 - 7/1 I was fortunate to be a classmate of Nancy's at Currie Junior High in Calgary. I remember her as an intelligent and fun loving person. Although I had not seen her since that time, for the last year I have been contact with her sister, Katy, who lives only a few kilometers from me. Thanks to her e-mails I have been able to keep up to date on Nancy and her journey with cancer. I myself was diagnozed with this terrible disease 2 years ago, and I can sympathasize with what Nancy and her family had to go through. Unfortunately, Nancy lost her battle, and those of us whose lives have been compromised by this disease can only hope and pray that one day there will be a cure and so many needless deaths will be prevented. To her family: find comfort in knowing that she is free from the pain and suffering, and remember her as the beaufiful and loving person that she was (and still is!) Name: Jan Garvey City Brantford Sent: 13.24 - 7/1 Hello, I'm a member of DAWN and wanted to stop by & see the website. I'm so glad I did! It's so very well done and especially touched me as I lost my very dear friend Frank in October to cancer. The poem about the first Christmas in Heaven made me cry happy tears and I hope that you don't mind that I copied it to share with my friends who are all missing our beloved Frank. Frank's always said that he wanted us all to remember him only with love and laughter and if we could only remember him with sadness he would rather we not remember him at all. I'm sure Nancy would feel that way too. I hope that in producing this website it has helped your healing process and I thank you for letting it help mine. :) Jan Name: Marianne M. Park City Woodstock Ont. Sent: 08.59 - 7/1 my deepest sympathy, trust your loved one is still with you, but not suffering. We miss our loved ones, but they do not miss us. Name: Rosemary Leslie City Salmon Arm Sent: 06.48 - 7/1 For Nancy: I knew you as the sister Of my beloved friend. I knew of some ups and downs Of sisterly love without end! I knew the young lady Loyal, compassionate and true. One with a warm smile For everyone she knew. How saddened such a spirit Has left us all behind. What better way to remember you Than to all ... be kind. You were much loved by all who were privileged to have met and know you, Nancy, and I will miss your blessed presence on this earth but I will know that you are not far from us. I promise to be there for your beloved sister in any way that is asked of me. I will care for her (as much as she will allow anyone to care for her ... she is so independent as you know) until you are again together. Isaiah 57:1 and 2: The righteous perish, and no one ponders it in his heart; devout men are taken away, and no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil. Those who walk uprightly enter into peace; they find rest as they lie in death. Jesus conquered the world and He conquered death so we know that you, Nancy, are dancing with Hinds Feet On High Places! Name: Pat Manahan City Thunder Bay, Ontario Sent: 03.34 - 7/1 This is a wonderful tribute to a very special woman. I wish I had had the opportunity to know her. My prayers are with all of your family as you try to face life without her. It will be hard, but she will never be forgotten as she will continue to live in your hearts. Name: Keitha Baer City Calgary Sent: 23.30 - 6/1 Dear Brian, Marjie, Chuck, Katy, Andrew, Stuart, Johnathan, Matthew J., Matthew B., Thank you for taking Horst and I in as a part of your family. Nancy, Brian, Jon and Matt were wonderful neighbours who fast became great friends. And we cherish the times we've had with Nancy's family. I miss my chum. I don't see a teddy bear without thinking of her; and I will take her with me on every golf course I play. I love you, Nance. Name: Brenda Brown City London Sent: 20.00 - 6/1 Dearest Kathleen, You and your family our in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so very, very sorry for the passing of your dear sister. We are loosing too many precious young women to this horrible disease. My God be with you. What a beautiful woman, what a terrible loss. Name: Linda Martin City Garson, ON Sent: 19.34 - 6/1 A beautiful tribute to a very special person indeed. Name: Susan McNally City Calgary, AB Sent: 18.37 - 6/1 I miss her dearly. Name: Roberta Livingstone Sent: 18.32 - 6/1 A wonderful tribute. Name: Darlene Forest City Hamilton,ON Sent: 16.56 - 6/1 I have never had the pleasure to meet Nancy, but after reading about her life,it is plain to see Nancy is one special person. Even in heaven she will touch so many. I found out today a friend of mine, her dear mother passed away a couple days ago from the dreaded cancer. God please find a cure we are losing very special people that we want to have more time with. Nancy is gone, but she will be in your heart and memories and no one can take that away. Name: Karen Fougere City Edmonton Alberta Sent: 16.40 - 6/1 I am so thankful I was able to see my friend (of almost 20 years) shortly before she died and we had a chance to say goodbye. "Think of me now and then" she said; how could I help but think of her for the rest of my life, we'd had such good times together just not enough of them. We always picked up as though we'd seen each other the day before, no matter how long it had been. I love you Nancy, you amazingly courageous woman, and will always miss you. Name: Mother City Georgetown, Ontario Sent: 13.42 - 6/1 To All Parents: I'll lend you, for a little while, a child of mine, He said, For you to love while she lives, and mourn when she is dead, It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three, But will you, till I call her back, take care of her for me? She'll bring her charms to gladden you, and shall her stay be brief, You'll have her lovely memories as solace for your grief. I cannot promise she will stay, as all from earth return, But there are lessens taught down there, I want this child to learn. I've looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true, And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have selected you. Now will you give her all your love .... not think the labour vain, Nor hate me when I come to call to take her back again. I fancy that I heard them say, Dear Lord, Thy Will be Done. For all the joy this child shall bring, The risk of grief we'll run. We'll shower her with tenderness, and love her while we may, And for the happiness we've known, forever grateful stay. And should the angels call for her much sooner than we planned, We'll brave the bitter grief that comes, and try to understand. Author: Edgar A. Guest Children are not commodities or property; they do not belong to anyone. They are GIFTS we are privileged to journey with for awhile, and with whom we remain intimately connected. Love, Mother XOXOX Name: Susan Harvey City Calgary Sent: 12.01 - 6/1 What a beautiful tribute to such a wonderful person. I have known Nancy for over 28 years. It hardly seems fair that she was taken from us so soon. I know that I will miss her always. The following verse from my favorite hymn gives me comfort and I know that she is happy and at peace with God. "And he will raise you up on eagle's wings, Bear you on the breath of dawn, Make you to shine like the sun, And hold you in the palm of his hand." Until we meet again... Name: Matthew Jeremiah McNeil Sent: 01.28 - 6/1 Each day I live reminds me of the sacrifices you made for me. It pains me knowing I did'nt always give you the respect you deserved Name: Wanda Sent: 15.04 - 5/1 Just a poem by Spencer Michael Free FRIENDSHIP 'Tis the human touch in this world that counts, The touch of your hand and mine, Which means far more to the fainting heart Than shelter and bread and wine; For shelter is gone when the night is o'er, And bread lasts only a day, But the touch of the hand and the sound of the voice Sing on the soul away. Name: Wanda Bellfountaine City Calgary Sent: 14.40 - 5/1 What a beautifull tribute to this most delightfull woman that I was so fortunate to know. Breast cancer has struck the women in my family, with radical surgeries for two of my father's sisters in 1948 and 1970. We were fortunate that they lived long lives as one of my aunts is now 92. My 46 yr.old niece was diagnosed in Sept.and has just had her reconstuctive surgery. We all are praying for her and for you the family . Name: Gwen Rutherford City Sherwood Park, Alberta Sent: 13.58 - 5/1 My deepest condolences. My mother came from a family of 8 girls... she is the 3rd youngest daughter. Her younger sister, died of breast cancer when she was 40. Her oldest 2 sisters have had breast cycsts, of which the oldest sister has lost both her her breasts. So far, none of our generation has had any cancer yet, and it is to great thanks to those who have pursued the research into this tragic disease for women. Prayers, I believe are where the power truly is. So, mine are with you all. Warm hugs, Gwen Rutherford Name: Leone Whitfield City High Level Sent: 13.02 - 5/1 Thank you so much for a beautiful memorial to a beautiful person. Nancy truly was a bright and shining star and although I feel anger and sorrow at her loss, I know that she is now singing with the angels. Nancy was like both a sister and mother to me and she and Brian opened their home and hearts to me and taught me the true meaning of friendship and loyalty. I will never forget Nancy-her love of life and family, her beautiful smile, her wonderful sense of humor, her courage and strength and her determination . I ran into Nancy several years ago in a parking lot in Campbell River, BC when she was on a trip with her parents and sister. I had not seen her for almost ten years prior but in talking with her it was if we had seen each other only the day before! Little did I know that it would be the last time I saw her. Not a day has passed that I haven't thought of Nancy and her family and although I feel sad, I also know that Nancy is in a better place. When I look up into the sky on a cold clear night and see the stars shining brightly I will think of you Nancy. Love always, Leone Name: Matthew Morrison City Glace Bay Sent: 12.36 - 5/1 Nancy will always be a great mother, wife and daughter. Name: Helen Tyers City England Sent: 12.25 - 5/1 from the 'Path of the Just' by Charlotte Elliott Still they have left a golden line of heavenly radience, which will shine long,long to memory's eye; Bidding us tread the path they trod E'en till we share their bright abode, Their pure felicity. I only knew Nancy through her sister, but may we all have the strength to follow her golden line, present in the memory of those who love her and a beacon for those of us who never knew, but follow the path of strength and grace that she left behind. with love Helen Name: Flo City Kelowna, Bc, Canada Sent: 02.13 - 5/1 Thank you for this beautiful tribute and momento to such a special person. My biggest regret is that I never made it to see her one last time. I am so thankful, though, to Brian that I spoke to her December 13th. My God! What a privilege and joy to have had such a wonderful friend in my life. She will always live in my heart and, funny as it may seem to others, I feel her near me always. I truly believe she is with our Lord in heaven, and not a day goes by that I don't pray for her and talk to her. I look forward to the day we will be together again and I can see those wonderful big brown eyes and hear that contageous laugh. Thank you for this treasure I shall always keep. God keep her in His tender loving care. God bless you all always! Find peace in knowing you were there for her. I should have been. Name: Brian Morrison Homepage: http://www.sunsetalpine.com City Banff Sent: 22.16 - 4/1 My life, my love I will forever and always love you. Name: Barbara Anello Homepage: http://dawn.thot.net City North Bay, Ontario Sent: 18.53 - 4/1 Nancy, although we never had an opportunity to connect in this life, I have come to know you through your sister Kathleen, whom I greatly admire and respect and am proud to call Friend and Sister! Yours is the second Memorial site I've had the misfortune to put together in just 6 months. The other was for Jennfifer Keck, who lived with metastatic breast cancer until her death on June 12, 2002, at the age of 49. These words capture the same sentiments I feel for you as I did for Jennifer, Kimberly and Alpha. Your bright light went out far before its time. Tonight we can look up at the stars and see light from stars that burned out long ago. But their light is still arriving here and will continue to long after all of us are dust. So many lives are touched in some way, no matter how briefly, and most never know whom they have touched and encouraged along during their low spots, the turning points, the support when we stumble. And memories are like starlight - they go on forever. Shine bright Nancy Eileen Tutty Morrison! Barbara Name: M. Kathleen Williams City Georgetown, Ontario Sent: 18.52 - 4/1 Please take time to Sign the Guestbook!